The little idiosyncrasies that only I knew about, that's what made her my wife. And she had the goods on me, too. She knew all my little peccadillos. People call these things imperfections, but they're not, that's the good stuff. And then we get to choose who we let in to our weird little worlds. You're not perfect, sport. And let me save you the suspense. This girl you met, she isn't perfect either. But the question is: whether or not you're perfect for each other. That's the whole deal. That's what intimacy is all about.